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Well duh, if this boy can barely bear to call himself my boyfriend, how is changing my status on myspace to 'in a relationship' while his still says 'single' going to make me look anything other than a massive gimp / desperate stalker? That's hardly the behaviour likely to encourage him to give a shit now, is it.
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I think the best response would be to completely and utterly move on. The relationship is obviously in the past and that is where it should stay. You should not allow your past to determine your future. You feel that this boy gone done you wrong - will trying to fuck him over now really achieve anything? It's not going to bring you two back together. Won't it just feed the aching, all-consuming bitterness inside you? Do you want to fulfill the Psychotic Ex stereotype and give him something to laugh about with his new partner (and probably all of his mates too)?
Respond to his request with "I'm sorry but I really don't think I've got the time to help you out with that. I'm so busy at the moment. You'll have to ask someone else" whilst all the while repeating this mantra to yourself;
I have Dignity. I am Gracious. I am above all this.
Well that's what I'd do, anyway.
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quote:Originally posted by Lee Holloway: That's hardly the behaviour likely to encourage him to give a shit now, is it.
I'm sorry to say this when you've been so massively honest but having to ask someone what your relationship is after a couple months is usually a sign they don't give too much of a shit. I know.
quote:Originally posted by Lee Holloway: Haha applause. Yeah exactly. No, I don't like being treated like shit and I don't normally act like this. I just fell in love, and apparently, love turns you (me) into a fucking victim. Love makes me sick.
Love may have made you a victim, but it doesn’t mean you have to resign yourself to that position forevermore. You’ve got a choice now. You can make the decision to cut your losses and get on with your life, or you can come to his beckon call and give him the satisfaction of knowing that, for all he’s done to you, you’ll still do anything he says.
It’s a lesson I learnt a long time ago, and a hard one at that. But basically you can’t win someone’s heart with IT support.
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quote:Originally posted by New Way Of Decay: I'm sorry to say this when you've been so massively honest but having to ask someone what your relationship is after a couple months is usually a sign they don't give too much of a shit. I know.
Gnh, what I mean is: don't get fooled again mmmmkay?
quote:Originally posted by Ringo: you can’t win someone’s heart with IT support.
Actually, you totally could: IT support, decorating skills, driving ability, ability to fix things, calm in the face of crisis, passionate about their career, financial stability, desire to have children. All these skills are on my list of qualities I would like a partner to have.
But IT support is currently top of the list ever since my sister made my hard drive die the other week with her porno related virus she infected it with.
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Why the fuck would I look at porn on your computer when I've got a perfectly good computer of my own to look at porn on? Anyway, porn is totally 2004.
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quote:Originally posted by Dr. Benway: it might be just broken you know. Remember when you thought my computer had a virus, lisa? Turned out to be faulty memory.
I don't remember that, no, sorry steve. But it could have been a virus, you know.
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Fuck 'im. Right in the ass. If he thinks he can take advantage of your devotion by getting you to do free stuff for him while he throws together a little light supper for two in the kitchen, fuck him. Right in the ass.
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Yeah, I meant to say 'leading free stock photography website'. We don't have much of a budget for images. But then, isn't this the most boring conversation in the world? Should we go back to talking about myspace and heartbreak?
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I doubt anyone would be impressed by my IT skillz if they saw the state of my PC at the moment. It's a miracle it works at all.
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Don't do it. Never give IT support to *****. Give it grudgingly to friends and only with enthusiasm to people with ready cash.
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You reached over with your hand and knocked my Jap over
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Sorry London I was trying to be clever.
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Ready cash they're prepared to give you for the IT support, obviously. Not just ready cash in general.
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You reached over with your hand and knocked my Jap over
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Anyhow. I think sidney answered it best. End of.
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well lee i think you should do it. and then when the wireless network is installed you should hand him an indelible magic marker and ask him if he wants to write 'i am a total idiot' on your forehead.
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quote:Originally posted by not...: Anyhow. I think sidney answered it best. End of.
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