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I haven't read the whole lot as I just got in, but I did read the OP and thought I could offer some advice...
Go over, install the wireless AND a keystroke capture program (email me if you need one! )... Then keep checking the 'reports' in your email until you get his (or hers, even better) credit card / bank details then go on a shopping spree.
If you really up for it, and have the techy know how, slap on some sort of VNC so you can actually control the pc remotely too, or if EastEnders is boring, you can just watch his computer in real time!
Don't mention it
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quote:Originally posted by Uber Trick: Actually, you totally could: IT support, decorating skills, driving ability, ability to fix things, calm in the face of crisis, passionate about their career, financial stability, desire to have children. All these skills are on my list of qualities I would like a partner to have.
But IT support is currently top of the list ever since my sister made my hard drive die the other week with her porno related virus she infected it with.
Well, I mean, here’s the thing. That’s a pretty long list of requirements. But what strikes me is that these are, like, all things that this person can do for you. I mention this because it reminds me a little of what Lee is talking about – basically a situation whereby, with no consideration given to emotional fulfilment, another person is judged solely on their usefulness rather than how special they may be as a person.
I think people would be a lot happier in relationships if they were content simply to be with someone who made them feel special, and reciprocated their affections, rather than expect them to be able to do certain things for you whenever you ask them. I know life’s never perfect, and maybe it’s a slightly naïve view on my part, but I don’t understand why people could happily discount a person as a partner simply because they didn’t have a specific interest, or because they can’t do certain things.
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quote:Originally posted by New Way Of Decay: He had to stop. Sometimes the boy is so accurate it becomes dangerous.
He seems to talk a lot of sense at the moment. His contribution to Roygate was an exceptional example of well balanced thoughtful posting. Though this is not to dismiss the quality of Sidney's advice, which was also excellent. As opposed to the quality of mine, which was rubbish.
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quote:Originally posted by Ringo: I think people would be a lot happier in relationships if they were content simply to be with someone who made them feel special, and reciprocated their affections, rather than expect them to be able to do certain things for you whenever you ask them.
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I feel really bad, because someone posted a link up 'as a jolly jape' on a bulletin board. I suppose the joke is 'hey look, we're so wacky we are selling our department online
So I posted:
quote:I quite fancy the one of the far left. She's not in focus but I reckon she'd be really dirty in bed. She all sweetness and light, but I reckon once she's under the covers she'd be noshing you off and putting her finger in your bumhole and you'd have to pretend you were too shocked to make her stop or something. Or, OR she'd let you do it on the desk at work after 5pm and keep her lil furry boots on. The filthy minx.
But the original post dissapeared so I said:
quote:What are you hiding then [poster name removed]? I see that person also bought this This cute hat. It might not be a girl it might be a brokeback cowboy. Yeehaa!
quote:Originally posted by Ringo: Well, I mean, here’s the thing. That’s a pretty long list of requirements. But what strikes me is that these are, like, all things that this person can do for you. I mention this because it reminds me a little of what Lee is talking about – basically a situation whereby, with no consideration given to emotional fulfilment, another person is judged solely on their usefulness rather than how special they may be as a person.
I think people would be a lot happier in relationships if they were content simply to be with someone who made them feel special, and reciprocated their affections, rather than expect them to be able to do certain things for you whenever you ask them. I know life’s never perfect, and maybe it’s a slightly naïve view on my part, but I don’t understand why people could happily discount a person as a partner simply because they didn’t have a specific interest, or because they can’t do certain things.
Know what I mean?
Yes Ringo I do. And I've tried it but basically it doesn't work so this is the new approach for Spring 2006. I've given too much in relationships in the past, now I want some things back. I just got fucked over by someone who I shared "affections" and just liked "being together" so I figured, if you're going to get fucked over either way eventually, why not get fucked over with benefits? Perfectly logical.
quote:Originally posted by Uber Trick: Yes Ringo I do. And I've tried it but basically it doesn't work so this is the new approach for Spring 2006. I've given too much in relationships in the past, now I want some things back. I just got fucked over by someone who I shared "affections" and just liked "being together" so I figured, if you're going to get fucked over either way eventually, why not get fucked over with benefits? Perfectly logical.
It is logical. Kinda. Although it could be argued that perhaps it’s better not to be in a relationship at all, than be in one which is based simply on what another person can do for you. Friends can do all those things too (ok maybe not the kids bit) with the added bonus that you’re not likely to get hurt, or to hurt anyone. But the problem with taking a defensive attitude to relationships like that is that there inevitably comes the time when the decorating is done, the computers are all working, there’s nowhere you want to drive to, and you sit there and suddenly realise that you’ve not really got anything in common. And where do you go from there?
I’m far happier being single to be honest. At least it doesn’t come with that nagging doubt that the person you’re with doesn’t really give a crap about you and is only with you because you’re able to fix the sink.
It’s not a personal criticism as such, I’m just thinking out loud. I just think that this is the cause of situations like Lee’s, where one party enters into a relationship because of love, and the other because of convenience.
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quote:Originally posted by jonesy999: Am I the only one who doesn't understand what Mikee is talking about. I feel a bit thick.
I'm a little unsure myself, but I think the gist was someone posted their 'amusing' link and then removed it because I said something filthy about one of the girls and ruined their harmless yet dull fun.
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You reached over with your hand and knocked my Jap over
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I don't understand the bulletin board ref but I have enjoyed conjuring a fantasy about the ebay seller by going through her item history.
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TMO's been brilliant today. I hope it's been as interesting, sadfacing and lolsome as I found it for everyone else. I'm almost glad I had to leave the office today after and argument with the team starting with 'so which **** has been using my log in then if everyone is going to play dumb' and run into my boss in Ravenscourt Park to tell her about it. I mean, I may not have a job come Monday, but the sun is shining and I have an interview tomorrow and I've applied for four permanent jobs, I have a gig coming up. I mean, things have been worse.
quote:Originally posted by not...: I don't understand the bulletin board ref but I have enjoyed conjuring a fantasy about the ebay seller by going through her item history.
Argh! That's the joke isn't it. I think it's a random lame joke on ebay and the poster has posted it from that very office, so my comments about fingers in assholes and then stringing out items from the sellers history must of rattled their little twee office.
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yeh it's weird. I feel like I've got a pretty good idea of what dizzy blonde rose is into, and therefore, could make broad character assumptions. Not that they would neccesarily be accurate, but you can at least narrow it down from having no idea. I could get quite addicted to checking out people's auctions. I did it to vikram for ages.
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just calling yourself 'dizzy blonde rose' is probably enough of a giveaway. Bubbly personality masks hidden inferiority complex. Likely to cry when drunk.
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)... Then keep checking the 'reports' in your email until you get his (or hers, even better) credit card / bank details then go on a shopping spree.
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